The Joy Journey of Patricia Barnes
About this joy journey:
Patricia, the site’s namesake, battled breast cancer for almost 9 years during which she developed “awe-inspiring” coping skills and, by her example, taught those around her to live each day to the fullest. She found purpose and took comfort in actively acknowledging life’s simple, daily pleasures, as she dealt with the challenges presented by her disease. This “record of joy” was an intimate way for her family to view her life, separate from her diesease, and to view the family’s lives through her eyes. Journal content was woven into Christmas letters, health updates and e-mails. Patricia talked about her journal writing at support groups and functions. She inspired others to keep records of their own joys, and her story reached many in the breast-cancer community. Her first journal entry reads, “This is a very special journal because it is a record of the many blessings the Lord has generously given me at all times and in all circumstances. Anyone has my permission to read this journal. It is an account of joy!”
Mar 28
- Dinner with friends - our 1st social engagement with new friends from IBC
- Bob and Kara went to the State Science Fair - Kelly's Decomposing Sweetness won 2nd place
- Resurrection bodies - see a full spectrum of light? Hear a full spectrum of sound? - no more pain
- Watching movies with Kara and Bob
- Bob walked through the eye clinic just as I got word the doctor would see me immediately
- Radiation can keep my left eye from getting worse - few side effects
- 2 new bathing suits with sewn in pads - one very colorful!
- Shooting baskets with Kara
- Jeannie is coming to visit us in July after conference in Toronto
- Bare black trees against a brilliant sunset
- Bunches of daffodils along Rock Creek Parkway 0 in the midst of DC-a mini wilderness
- The star sapphire has been replaced in my miniature - after months of waiting I can wear my engagement ring again
- Deep, velvety, purple violets
Mar 23
- Mom made me breakfast as a treat, soft boiled eggs, cinnamon toast, grapefruit
- Bought 3 books, one for each girl on their wedding day See Reshared Joys
- Wondered where I could wait for mom comfortably. She was serving pizza at FCA while I was in book fair shopping. Teacher provided me a soft chair and grandparents letters to tape. Fun to help someone else for a change!
- With a heavier bat Kim is a slugger in softball See Reshared Joys
- Kim has new roommates for '99-00
- Kara now has a glow in the dark stars and planets on her walls and furniture
- Easter egg trees
Mar 22
- Successful men's' retreat for Bob - he returned enthused about his growing faith, possible new friends, Bible study
- Bob rough housing with Kara and hoisting Kelly over his shoulder for free tickles
- Making progress on finishing Kara's doll See Reshared Joys
- The sense that whenever I die my life will be complete by God's plan for me and not a tragic early ending
- The absolute faith that after a time of grief my family will go forward living life to its fullest in a personal relationship with Jesus