The Joy Journey of Patricia Barnes
About this joy journey:
Patricia, the site’s namesake, battled breast cancer for almost 9 years during which she developed “awe-inspiring” coping skills and, by her example, taught those around her to live each day to the fullest. She found purpose and took comfort in actively acknowledging life’s simple, daily pleasures, as she dealt with the challenges presented by her disease. This “record of joy” was an intimate way for her family to view her life, separate from her diesease, and to view the family’s lives through her eyes. Journal content was woven into Christmas letters, health updates and e-mails. Patricia talked about her journal writing at support groups and functions. She inspired others to keep records of their own joys, and her story reached many in the breast-cancer community. Her first journal entry reads, “This is a very special journal because it is a record of the many blessings the Lord has generously given me at all times and in all circumstances. Anyone has my permission to read this journal. It is an account of joy!”
Jan 31
- I had been thinking of Sheila and she called me this morning.
- Life is good
- Shiela said our walk made her day
- I won Arachnid - 1000 pts - no bouncing cards
Jan 30
- Gillie brought her own soup for lunch knowing I would not mind
- Jean knew I would ask to stop for cappuccino on our walk
- I shouldn't be so cynical, the detailer didn't know the job was by nomination
- Kara's invitation to the movies got April out of going to her brothers hockey game - was April ever delighted
- "Hurry, quick! It's lucky time, Mom!" 22:22 on Kara's clock
Jan 29
Jan 28
- A lipstick blot kiss on Kelly - "Crazy Mommy" with giggles
- Jackie screeched with pleasure that we maybe coming to Key West too
Jan 27
- Quiet after the cacophony of breakfast and mad dash for the bus
- Ducks on the ice at Tervuren Park
- Jean says the beeper belongs on Bob's passport
Jan 26
- Jean arrives today for two weeks
- The florist shops were closed but I found flowers at the GB
- Bob's excited it may still be Key West - I'm scared
- Woman after mastectomy - "I am not buying anymore bras until they give me 50% off!"
Jan 25
- Little ones (3 or 4 year olds) helping Bob move tables after church
- A huge hug from Barbara Deacon
- Tears in Bob's eyes as he told me how much he enjoys watching my face - so very much love between us!
- Using Nancy's X-stitch bookmark in my joy journal
- Ping-pong with Bob - I'm getting better - I actually won a game