The Joy Journey of Patricia Barnes
About this joy journey:
Patricia, the site’s namesake, battled breast cancer for almost 9 years during which she developed “awe-inspiring” coping skills and, by her example, taught those around her to live each day to the fullest. She found purpose and took comfort in actively acknowledging life’s simple, daily pleasures, as she dealt with the challenges presented by her disease. This “record of joy” was an intimate way for her family to view her life, separate from her diesease, and to view the family’s lives through her eyes. Journal content was woven into Christmas letters, health updates and e-mails. Patricia talked about her journal writing at support groups and functions. She inspired others to keep records of their own joys, and her story reached many in the breast-cancer community. Her first journal entry reads, “This is a very special journal because it is a record of the many blessings the Lord has generously given me at all times and in all circumstances. Anyone has my permission to read this journal. It is an account of joy!”
Feb 26
- Kelly found her drivers' permit the day after we got her a new one - in the reverse side of her winter coat!
- Excellent check-up at NCI
- So far so good reducing my pain meds
- Doing the same Bible study Nan does
Feb 24
- Attended Faith Christian Academy's last basketball game of season with Kara - boys won with basket as the clock expired!
- Shopping jaunt to Tyson's corner - both Kara and Kelly found clothes they like
- Kelly later said it was our best shopping spree ever! And she likes wearing red
- Bob was as ever, patient and took naps in the wheelchair while I was in dressing rooms with the girls
- Am attending Sunday church every week now
- Will attend Wednesday communion at Holy Trinity during Lent
- Kara raids everyone's closet to dress for spirit days at school - my Western shirt - grandma's sweater
- Sitting beside Bob watching a movie and munching popcorn
- Kim has not felt ill in a long while!
Feb 19
- Painting Kara's fingernails blue and gold for spirit day
- Phone conversations with Gillie and Nancy
- Ian and Gillian from St Paul’s in Belgium are getting married
- A leisurely hot bath using plumier scented soap
- Energy for daily chores
- Cooked dinner last night (spaghetti) and did a lot of clean up too!
- Gillies melanoma on back of knee was superficial not connected to lymph's
- Kim sounds bright and cheerful on phone again
- Derek got a work-study job on campus
- I have attended Sunday church regularly since January
Feb 17