The Joy Journey of Patricia Barnes
About this joy journey:
Patricia, the site’s namesake, battled breast cancer for almost 9 years during which she developed “awe-inspiring” coping skills and, by her example, taught those around her to live each day to the fullest. She found purpose and took comfort in actively acknowledging life’s simple, daily pleasures, as she dealt with the challenges presented by her disease. This “record of joy” was an intimate way for her family to view her life, separate from her diesease, and to view the family’s lives through her eyes. Journal content was woven into Christmas letters, health updates and e-mails. Patricia talked about her journal writing at support groups and functions. She inspired others to keep records of their own joys, and her story reached many in the breast-cancer community. Her first journal entry reads, “This is a very special journal because it is a record of the many blessings the Lord has generously given me at all times and in all circumstances. Anyone has my permission to read this journal. It is an account of joy!”
Mar 31
- I took a stress test without even moving from my chair! Heart rate 162 - my heart had plenty of oxygen
- Bob was not at SHAPE and showed up minutes before an IV was inserted
- It is not cancer and at last my cough will be resolved!
- The girls came back to visit bringing teddy bears, music, flowers - and a wooden house with all our names!
Mar 30
- Dark purple violets in bloom again!
- Kara noticed the red tulips - they are ones the girls picked out last Spring
- Meeting went well with landlord on repairing the house before the expert comes
Mar 29
- Which day did I miss?
- Colleen K. came to church with us
- Colleen F. thinks I will be on TV???
- The first red buds are bursting on my tulips along the front walk
- Baby lambs in the field
Mar 27
Mar 26
- Bob patiently waits and takes the girls to school on his way to work
- Felt less overwhelmed about getting ready to move today
- Rhonda brought Kara home from Math Olympiads
- With a patch over one eye it took me 5 times to get a stuffed animal in the bucket
Mar 25
- "Why Me?" introduction talk for CBS went well
- Did not get lost going to Kara's vision therapy appointment
- Found the photo of family in front of submarine for Kara's essay - difference between A or B grade
Mar 24
- Lightly stroked bruise on Kelly's foot from soccer practice and she screamed as if in mortal pain
- "Mommy, I know it better towards the end of the chapter" Kara reviewing for social studies test
- My arm is in great shape due to Bob's massage
- A chocolate egg from Gillie
Mar 23