The Joy Journey of Patricia Barnes
About this joy journey:
Patricia, the site’s namesake, battled breast cancer for almost 9 years during which she developed “awe-inspiring” coping skills and, by her example, taught those around her to live each day to the fullest. She found purpose and took comfort in actively acknowledging life’s simple, daily pleasures, as she dealt with the challenges presented by her disease. This “record of joy” was an intimate way for her family to view her life, separate from her diesease, and to view the family’s lives through her eyes. Journal content was woven into Christmas letters, health updates and e-mails. Patricia talked about her journal writing at support groups and functions. She inspired others to keep records of their own joys, and her story reached many in the breast-cancer community. Her first journal entry reads, “This is a very special journal because it is a record of the many blessings the Lord has generously given me at all times and in all circumstances. Anyone has my permission to read this journal. It is an account of joy!”
Sep 30
- Was able to correct address on Bob’s e-mail and send it for him
- Kelly can hear in her sleep – doorbells and telephones
- Using commemorative stamps
- Framing Kara’s ape picture together
Sep 29
- Kelly looked so cute for pajama day – green plaid pj’s, Smurf, Elmo slippers
- Kara proudly announced “I drank all my milk from the cereal bowl”
Sep 28
- Lots of “I love you Mom”
- Fancy table for Bob’s birthday dinner
- Bob fixed my wooden flowers
- Kara tossing glitter to celebrate Bob’s birthday
Sep 27
- Bob remembered to run the dishwasher, I forgot last night
- Sharing my joy journal with Kara
- Sleeping in late Saturday morning
- A game of Life with Kara
- Remembering to say yes as often as possible
Sep 26
- Gillie called to see how the “waiting” was going
- Ice cream – birthday special – at the Pierrette (Bob)
- Kelly calls me “silly mom” instead of getting frustrated as often
Sep 25
- A whiskery kiss from Bob
- A very funny e-mail from Bruce, word perfect service agent-power outage – pack up computer – you are too stupid to own one
- Lunch with Gillie while I waited for my bone scan
Sep 24